Divine mercy..

Earlier this month we celebrated Divine Mercy Sunday, this was declared by Pope John Paul II in 2000. The Divine Mercy is a prayer that is prayed on rosary beads and was given to Saint Faustina by a vision of Jesus. It is a wonderful and powerful prayer and is usually said for those who have died to pray for the mercy of Jesus.

I was not aware of the Divine Mercy until recently when I was asked to say the Novena from Good Friday until Divine Mercy Sunday. I didn't even know how to say it and was given a booklet explaining it. I also downloaded the app which was much easier to follow and allowed me to pray the Divine Mercy at night before I went to sleep.

The power of this prayer can be explained in the words of Jesus:

'Whoever will recite it will receive great mercy at the hour of death. Priests will recommend it to sinners as their last hope of salvation. Even if there were a sinner most hardened, if he were to recite this chaplet only once, he would receive grace from My infinite mercy'

Very powerful words indeed. The prayer is simple to say and quicker than saying a rosary. I recommend downloading the free app or getting a Divine Mercy booklet from a religious stall. The main prayer prayed on the Our Father beads is:

'Eternal Father, I offer you the Body and Blood, Soul and Divinity of Your Dearly Beloved Son, Our Lord, Jesus Christ, in atonement for our sins and those of the whole world'

Then on the Hail Mary beads the following is recited:

'For the sake of His sorrowful Passion, have mercy on us and on the whole world'

The prayer brings us closer to Jesus and His mercy, it also helps us meditate on the passion and remember what he went through for us and all of mankind. I began my novena after watching Mel Gibson's, Passion of Christ so the torture, blood and disfigurement of Jesus were fresh in my mind as I was praying for His mercy. It is said to be most powerful when prayed during the hour after 3pm, the time of Jesus' death.

I highly recommend any of you to say the Divine Mercy, if only once, and if you like to read you should definitely get Sr. Faustina's Diary: Divine Mercy in My Soul.

May God bless you all with His abundant love.

YCM

Talking to young people..

I was recently asked to go into a High School and give a talk to the 15/16 year old students. I was nervous beforehand but it was a rewarding experience and hope I got at least a few of them thinking about faith. Although it was a Catholic school none of them admitting to attending Sunday mass and the worry is once they leave school they will have no spiritual input at all. Here is a summary of my talk:


Both my parents are Catholic, I've been brought up Catholic, I went to a Catholic School,  I go to mass every week and just on the outside probably looked like a good catholic boy with no problems or issues.

But there have been times I wasn't happy and when I was about 15/16 I got bored with my faith. It’s something that had always been around me and maybe I just didn't appreciate what it was doing for me. I kept going to church because I knew my mum would be angry with me but I didn't feel I was getting anything out of it. Mass seemed long and boring and it always seemed to get in the way. If I went out of a Saturday night it was hard to get up the next morning to go to church on a Sunday.

When I left school and got a job I had money and started going out a lot, met new people and spent a lot of time out in Manchester or at friends’ houses. During this time I didn't think about God or my faith much at all, I was embarrassed to tell people I was a Catholic. This time was hard because it pushed me further from God, I felt that I wasn't good enough for the church. When I went to mass I felt I didn't belong there amongst all these good people. I thought they all had perfect little lives with no struggles and that they didn't understand me. I felt like the church wasn't for me, God wasn't for me.

One year my parish priest invited me to go to Lourdes with the youth of the diocese to help sick people on pilgrimage. I was very nervous about it because I thought it would be like a holiday with a nursing home, bathing and feeding sick people all week. I couldn't have been more wrong it was brilliant, I met lots of great young people my age and had a really good laugh. It was hard getting up for a shift with a hangover sometimes but it was worth it. What it showed me was that Catholics can be normal, they can drink, and swear and have a laugh and still be good people. Being a good catholic doesn't mean you have to be boring and go to mass 12 times a day and say 20 rosaries.

After this holiday to Lourdes I started to get more involved with a youth group in my parish, we met up and went out together. I realised that I was good enough to be a Catholic. God doesn't expect us to be perfect, God made us and knows us and he loves us with all our faults. He knows we gossip, he knows what we look at online even if we delete the history, he knows when we shout at our parents, he knows when we drink, when we smoke, when we make fun of the teachers. He knows all of our sins, but that doesn't mean we can’t ask him for guidance. In the bible Jesus didn't go to all the good people, he went to the prostitutes, he went to murderers, he went to the tax collectors who were taking peoples money, he went to liars, he went to the poor and homeless people in the streets. Being a catholic isn't about being perfect, it’s about knowing that we aren't perfect.

I used to go to confession with the youth group and I wasn't always honest with the priest. I’d say the sins that I wanted him to know but I’d keep the really juicy stuff secret. This priest helped with the youth group so I didn't want him to know what I got up to when I wasn't being a good boy in mass. I guess I just didn't want him to judge me. Then one day I went to confession with a priest I didn't know, I decided I was going to have a real confession because he didn't know me and I’d never see him again. I told him everything, things I’d done when I was younger, girls I’d been seeing, things I’d done wrong, times I’d really hurt people. I got it all of my chest, then he gave me some advice and said Jesus forgives you of all your sins. I felt amazing. Like a weight had been lifted off, I didn't realise it but all these things I’d been doing had been weighing me down. I thought in that moment I never want to sin again, that lasted about 5 minutes. But that isn't the point. Going to confession isn't about being perfect, it’s about saying I'm only human. I am a sinner and I know I'm going to sin again but I'm genuinely sorry for what I've done. It’s a very powerful experience and it takes a strong person to go to confession and be totally honest.

I used to pray for selfish things, God please get me a fit girlfriend cos I've been really good and deserve one. If I fancied a girl I’d pray she fancied me back, like a divine love potion. God please make me win the lottery, I promise I’ll give some to charity so really by letting me win I’ll feed to poor like you told me to. God I want some new trainers, can you make my mum give me £100 otherwise I’ll have to rob them and you don’t like stealing. Obviously none of these prayers were answered so I thought God wasn't listening to me. What I realised later is that God does answer prayers, if we ask for the right things he always answers them. Rather than ask for that fit girl in my class I prayed that I’d meet the right woman. Rather than loads of cash straight away I prayed for a good job so I could work hard for the things I wanted. Now when I pray I ask God for things that I think he wants for me, if you are praying for God to help you fulfil His plan for you then why would He say no? Pray for development, ask to be a better person, and if you really want it then it will happen.

People say God has a plan for all of us and that’s hard to think sometimes, I was hoping God’s plan for me was to be a footballer so I could have fancy cars and houses. It didn't work out that way. Probably because I'm terrible at football. We can’t know what God’s plan is for us, he won’t text us with an update on what’s going to happen. We just have to be open to it, if you say to God I am open to whatever you want me to be. You will find you will be guided the right way. If you are closed to God and don’t let him in then you could very easily end up in bad place like I did. Temptations are very subtle, it’s very easy to be led along a dangerous route and by the time you realise it it’s very hard to back out of it. But you can, if you ask for help you will be given help.

We've all got dreams of what we want to be, what jobs we want, where we want to go, who we want to be. If your dreams are achievable and you think God would be happy with them then there is no reason you can’t achieve them. When you look back you will be amazed how God clears the obstacles to help you to end up where you are now.

It’s sounds sad to say yeah I go to prayer group it’s great. But its actually just a social group with like minded people. I guarantee you’ll meet better friends at school and in a youth group than in a night club or at the park. If you can get involved socially it’s easier to ask God what he want’s for you. God has a plan for you but you have to ask for guidance on how to fulfil it. If you can then go to Lourdes, it’s for young people like you and it’s a great way to get your parents to pay for you to go on holiday. Just say it’s a pilgrimage for helping sick people and don’t mention the pubs and staying up all night. It is hard work during the day but it’s a really good laugh.

When I look back at what I wanted, my fit girlfriend and loads of money. I realised it was selfish but actually through praying and working hard I've got where I wanted to be. I'm with a girl I met at Lourdes. I'm about to be a qualified surveyor and with Gods blessing I'll going to get a good job and the salary to go with it. But I only achieved these things through my faith. I opened myself up to God and said I will do whatever you want me to do. Please give me the strength and guidance to achieve your goals. And it happened, it’s not always easy and I'm nowhere near perfect but I'm happier and I'm getting there.

Just remember, you are good enough for God, being a good Catholic doesn't mean you have to be boring, going to confession will make you feel like a better sinner and help is always there when you need it. If you’re ever stuck just ask God to help you through it and ask for guidance.

YCM

Catholic New Years Resolutions..

Another New Year, another 'new start'. A time when most people aim to change their ways, out with the bad habits and in with the new and improved version of themselves. It's a good way to get a fresh start mentality but can be hard to maintain beyond January. We start the year with high expectations that we are suddenly going to change completely and become that perfect person we know is lurking beneath the sin. Unfortunately it doesn't always work like that. To start with I find it is good to look back on the year gone and see what we can learn.

When looking back on 2012 don't focus on the negatives, God knows us through and through, he made us and loves us just as we are. We don't need to improve to be good enough for God, we already are good enough for Him. Jesus didn't mix with self-righteous, holy know it alls. He came for us sinners, the murderers, rapists, liars and cheats of the world. If he can love people like that unconditionally then who are we to reject his love? He will always be there for us wherever we are and no matter how detached we feel.

Psalm 139:1-8

You have searched me, Lord, and you know me.
You know when I sit and when I rise;
you perceive my thoughts from afar.

You discern my going out and my lying down;
you are familiar with all my ways.

Before a word is on my tongue you, Lord, know it completely.

You hem me in behind and before,
and you lay your hand upon me.
Such knowledge is too wonderful for me, too lofty for me to attain.

Where can I go from your Spirit?
Where can I flee from your presence?
If I go up to the heavens, you are there;
if I make my bed in the depths, you are there.

A good way to wipe the slate clean is to go to confession, if we want to improve then most important thing is the fact that we do want to change, keep your ambitions for the year realistic and it will help improve your sense of achievement. If you want to stop judging and gossiping then rather than lie and say you'll never do it again, make a conscious effort to think next time I'm having negative thoughts about someone I'll keep them to myself. If you want to get fit don't spend £40 a month joining a gym if you aren't the type of person to use a gym, just go for more walks, play an active game you enjoy like football or badminton.

If you want to improve your relationship with God just think of small things you can do that you weren't doing last year, attend mass more often, give more time in prayer, talk to others more about your faith or read the bible more. Set realistic achievable goals for 2013 and write a list of where you want to be in your life at the end of the year. Write a letter to yourself marking out your aims and ambitions, not just ambiguous short terms fads, but long term changes of attitude and self-improvements. Then next year you can see what you did well, where you went wrong and how you can improve again in the future. Constant evaluation is essential in building self-belief.

May God bless you and all you do in 2013. May you let God into your heart to guide you to do His will and fulfil his mighty incomprehensible plan!

YCM